Sickening day

Been having a fever and flu for 2 days. Feel so tired and dizzy the whole day at work. Today Ed told me he's feeling tired of his girlfriend's temper. I was surprise as he like this girl so much that he could even rush down from work just to buy her breakfast. It makes me wonder if feeling grows over time or die over time?? I once heard that if u love someone, you should accept who he/she is. Is that really true?? Shouldn't we changed that person for the better or should we just change him/her away?? Of course we should not make that person dress the way we like or read the books we like. But what about bad habbits or temper?? What if he is a drug addict? Should we just accept the way he is or what if she is a spendthrift?? One thing we should always remember, love is not blind open your eyes!!!

I have seen how people curse and swear at the other party when breaking up. What does that mean?? So the next time when we say 'I love you' to the other party, we should change it to 'I love you only if you love me and I will curse and swear at you if you leave.'

A few days ago as I was taking the MRT in Taipei, I overheard this girl talking to the boyfriend over the handphone. I could make out the the boyfriend wanna break off and she is asking for a reason. She keeps questioning what did she did wrong and why she deserve this? In the end, she colled down and said to her boyfriend, ' If you can return me 3 years of my time, I will agree to break off and will be very happy and not throw my temper.' I guess the boyfriend must have felt like a c**k stuck in the mouth. Is starting a relationship an investment?? Although every fund talked about the possibilities of making big money but they can't promise you anything in the future, they will say that its all based on today's market. But one golden rule about relationship and investment shares in common is when the price is dropping, don't keep pumping in more fund, cut the lost and get out of it. Same for relationship, when you are not in the person's heart anymore, walk out of it and don't do any silly things to hurt yourself.
P/s I didn't abide the golden rule too...damm it