What the fish is happening to this world??

Recently I realised that nowadays guys seems to be getting more emotional than gals. I often heard about how guys cried over a failed relationship and how gals walked away and got into another within a short period. Isn't guys supposed to be the one who always dump the gals for another babe and the gals the one weeping over it?? What the fish is wrong with this world, who's the pussy now?? Something to do with the hormone or what??


I fell into the weak men category too in my previous relationship. I broke down and cried. Hanged on to it when she left and start another chapter of her life?? Why do we cling on and refused to move on?? You live just as well before you knew her so whats wrong without her?? Till today I can't answer this too, why did it hurt me so badly when she left?? Was I sad that she left or was I sad for her because I presumed she took the wrong steps. Am I sad over losing her or am I worried for her??

I once heard that mourning over a 'dead' relationship before moving on into another allow us time to see things more clearly. Those that hop into another within a short perod are actually in the denial state. You don't heal from the hurt if you skip the mourning part. Perhaps we are just a stepping stone for someone else but at least we are happy knowing that we played a part in bringing happiness to the ones we love one way or the other.

Lastly lets get things straight guys, you are allow to cry over it or scream your heart out but please don't be a pussy. No one like a loser or even worse, a sore loser. Let's wish them well and let them go. Like what an old song I remember ' if she return in time, i 'll know shes' mine.......