Monogamy Vs Polygamy

I always support monogamy & strongly object polygamy. Mew asked me today if it is possible for a person to fall in love with 2 person at the same time. I feel that this is a very subjective question. A mother can love both children equally at the same time but can a guy love 2 women at the same time? My opinion is if a guy were to claim that he love 2 women at the same time, the truth is he only love himself.

Scenerio1: If he were to marry one of the women & kept the other as mistress, he is cheating at least one. Most probably the wife in most cases. If the wife were to know, she will be deeply hurt so if a guy love the woman, why would he be cheating on her.

Scenerio 2: If the wife does not know about it forever & he maintain the relation. Most probably, he has no plan future plan for the mistress but just dragging her. The mistress will be wasting her youth on something with no return. Maybe in love, we don't expect anything in return but what will happen to her when she is old or during festival? The man will return to his wife & kids while she will be all alone.

So my conclusion, men out there who are reading this. there is no secret that can be kept forever. If up to this point, you still strongly believes that you love both women equally, then someday you will be causing hurt to either one of the women or both. Especially for married men, if you truly love another woman but unable to leave your wife for the other, why cling on to her instead of letting her go in search of someone who can give her a future. Think again, while you are celebrating festive season with your wife or girlfriend, what happened to the other woman? What happen to her in many years to come? Can you be there for her whenever she needed help, can you be there when she is feeling down or when she is sick? Face the fact, men who are in this situation, you only love yourself & no one else.